"Or don't hate each other in the romantic way. You can hate someone without wanting to kill them or be their kismesis. It's...like rivals really." She tilts her head, "And with your moirail...you keep each other sane and out of trouble and really that's part of matesprit as well. Pity. But you don't want to kiss them and you know all their flaws and how to help them overcome them rather than...letting your pity for them overshadow their bad points."

She's not sure that made sense really. It's so hard to explain the finer concepts when she wasn't sure that's how humans did them. Since the names weren't even the same.