"Think, then," Roland says, sitting back and not pushing to try and find out just what it is that's so embarrassing. If she wanted to tell him she'd tell, and so far as he knows it isn't really relevant. "Only remember, men here will do a great many things to try and convince people like us - especially people like you - that they are owed. They will say a great many things. Take care who you allow to convince you that they're right."