"When she and I were first starting out as ashmates I had the same problem. I always felt like we were having two different conversations instead of connecting and it took a very long time to overcome that. I think the best you can do is give her time and be very clear and honest with her about what you feel. If you need to write it down -- it can only help to try, can't it?"

He puts a hand on Karkat's shoulder and squeezes gently.

"I hope it works. I know how much she means to you, and how much it hurts to lose a friend."